From: The Golden Sayings of Epictetus (translated by Hastings Crossley) - from Project Gutenberg.
CXLIII
Asked how a man should best grieve his enemy, Epictetus replied, "By setting himself to live the noblest life himself."
This is the personal blog of Steve Lewis - aka sjlewis55. It contains (what he considers to be) interesting and amusing fragments drawn from life. Perhaps, it is in the marginalia that we find true meaning.